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"Tired" needs to look at her own behavior because I have never seen one partner be the only guilty one. My wife can hear the ticking of the turn signal that wasn't turned off, but she doesn't always hear my questions or statements.
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DEAR ABBY: Focus is a strength for many men like me. I am a little hard of hearing and need to focus on what I am listening to. If you want open ears, hold my hands and make sure I am looking at your face. You will now have my attention. Tell me what you want from me. I want you to be happy and will do what I can for you. -- A Little Hard of Hearing (Chuck)
DEAR ABBY: Some researchers say women speak about 13,http://vaninyhandbag.com/wp-searches.php?klubi-2015-16/as-roma,000 more words a day than men do. There's a joke that explains it's because we have to say everything twice! -- Jenny in North Carolina
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DEAR ABBY: There are three words men always respond to: sex, food and money -- not always in that order. Use one of those words when talking to them and you'll always get a response. -- Beth in the South
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