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TOPIC: Fear and violence in transgender Baltimore- 'It's scary trusting anyone'

Fear and violence in transgender Baltimore- 'It's scary trusting anyone' 10 years 9 months ago #22529

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The , the largest study of its kind, found that almost two-thirds of respondents reported they had suffered physical assault. A by the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs, focusing specifically on violence against LGBT people,Gazans survey destruction dur, found that of 18 homicides motivated by hate in 2013, 72% of the victims were trans women, and 78% were black.
Kylar Broadus of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, which published the 2011 discrimination survey, said that reliable official statistics do not exist. Incidents are grossly under-reported, a problem often compounded by misidentification of victims who are listed by their gender at birth. “If folks aren’t aware who transgender people are, how are we going to be counted?” Broadus said.
Taking matters into their own handsIn the absence of official records, the transgender community has taken to keeping its own account of those who have died as a result of hatred or prejudice. A compiled by the website Transgender Day of Remembrance gives the details of 170 violent deaths in the US between 2000 and 2012. Baltimore, according to the spreadsheet, has had eight transgender murders in as many years, since the transgender activist Marcus Rogers was set on fire in 2006. Then Stacy Brown, Dee Green, Tyra Trent, Tracy Johnson and Kelly Young, before this summer’s toll – Kandy Hall and Mia Henderson.The Guardian talked to eight trans women of colour in Baltimore, hearing a range of experiences that broadly correlate with nationwide patterns. Only a couple of the women said they had never been assaulted. “I’ve lived from here to Las Vegas, and I thank the lord to this day that I’ve never been hurt by anyone,Australian economy is not in ,” said Jean Rollings.Others have not been so lucky. Malia Mai, 26, recalled the disturbing turn that one of her relationships took a few years ago. She had been getting to know a man, and aware of the sensitivity, had shared with him her transgender identity early on. But when they were intimate sexually for the first time,The Wizards and the Cavaliers Are Set to Reignite Their Rivalry, he grew angry, claiming she hadn’t told him. The next day, he called her and apologised profusely. Please come over and let’s make up, he said. She drove to his house, and when she got out of the car he came out to welcome her and approached her as if to embrace. But instead of a hug, he gave her a punch in the face. And then another, and another. People in the street came to her rescue, shouting: “Leave her alone! Leave her alone!” He shouted back: “No, no, she’s not a she, she’s a man,” and when they heard that, her rescuers backed off. He continued beating her until a woman passing in a car stopped and let her climb in, and they drove away.And then there’s what happened to Joi-Elle White when, as a young woman then living in New Jersey, she dated a man for several weeks. “I told him my T,” she said, explaining that T stands for Truth – that is, her transgender history. “I told him at the beginning, because I didn’t want to be heart broken.”For three months they enjoyed a loving though largely platonic relationship, White resisting further intimacy because she didn’t want to get sexually involved until she could absolutely trust the man. “We held hands, kissed, went to the movies, hung out with his family and friends. He made me feel I was his special girl, no problem.”After three months, she felt comfortable enough to agree to spending the weekend with him. “We went out to eat as normal, then turned in at his house. So there I am, sitting on the couch, and there he is, sat next to me.”Doors flew open. Men rushed into the room. Bodies came at her from all directions. She remembers thinking there were a lot of men, like at a house party. Only, these men weren’t there to party. They started to punch her, grab at her. She kicked and scratched to fend them off. Then she hurled herself through a glass window, landing outside the house and scrambling away.What would have happened if she hadn’t leapt through that window? “There’s only so long I could fight them. They would have killed me, I know that.”It has taken White, 39, a long time to rebuild her confidence. She has trust issues to this day, she said. She will not date any man unless both he and his entire circle of family and friends are apprised of her “T”. Rarely does she let anyone stay over at her home, and when she does, she makes sure to have a 12-inch kitchen knife under the pillow.Experiences like Mai’s and White’s have repercussions for all the “sisters”, not just those directly involved. It leaves each of them a little more distrustful, a little more on guard. All the women said they tended to keep their distance from other people – straight people, black people, white people, even other trans women like themselves if they’re white – everyone,True Religion Jeans Ireland, that is, other than their own kind.“We’re scared,” said Wade. “So most of us stay by ourselves. We don’t get involved, we don’t get close to anybody.”
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