Last week, we published a story concerning a lady whose boyfriend had a dirty past.He confessed to have been a homosexual who did dirty jobs for money.Here are some reactions to her story.
Tanitoluwa, your story appears questionable and requires further explanation. How could you justify a man who you haven’t accepted to date as being nice and never fancied sex? Didn’t it occur to you that as long as the verbal agreement hasn’t been established between a man and a woman, such a man has no right to make any move in terms of propelling the woman’s mood sexually? If he does, he must be harassing her sexually. It is totally out of point for you to jump into conclusion, going by your statement....’He never asked for sex, he respects me as well’. The truth is that if you love him, go for him and forget about his past since he has turned a new leaf. Everybody has a past, including you,
Don’t try to date him, just keep him as a friend.
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Certainly nobody is God’s equal. Pray fervently to God on your next line of action regarding your new catch and God will lead you aright 08061358602.
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As far as I am concerned, there is no cause for alarm. The guy is open, down to earth and born again. There is no one without a past. Keep your fingers crossed, be prayerful, go ahead with the relationship. I wish both of you the best
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Do not be deceived with the past experience of your lover, but you should be very careful, because he would soon ask for sex. Finally, be prayerful, don’t be deceived with his confession that he is born again or not, they are many who claim to be, but who are not acting their confession
Festus, Kabba, 08072539097.
Move ahead with the relationship, he is a really changed person, if not, he would not have revealed anything about his past. Nobody is perfect In one way or the other, we have committed one sin or the other for the fact that we were not brought up by the same parents 08030854542.
My best advice for you is to accept him Afterall, you testified to it that he had changed and cares for you as well
Fawas (gaga), 08149010439.
If you are looking for an altar-bound relationship, then you need to be careful. That your lover is professing to have given his life to Christ does not make him a saint. I advise that you go to God in prayer to find out if the guy is the will of God for you, if you believe in such act. Tell your parents about it so that they can consult the ‘’elders’’ about it if the guy will make a good husband if you marry him. Or take your time to properly study him to know if he is reliable 08053567705.
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You need to pray for God’s guidance. You can contact a ‘reliable’ man of God for prayers and counselling. God bless you.
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Based on what you have written, I think there is no big deal in moving with the guy as far as you have said that he has given his life to Christ
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I advise you to put your trust in God and be strong in prayer, nothing good comes easy. With your prayer, everything about the guy will change positively, if only you put your trust in God. Finally, don’t leave the guy and don’t be in a haste about getting married to him. Let God decide on your behalf. It is well with you in Jesus name, 08153499014.
You need to be careful about the guy because you never can tell if the guy would decide to marry you. But if you know that you can change the guy, then good luck to you, 08153005642.
If God has forgiven us our past mistakes, be convinced that he is a genuine born again brother. You also have to be born again and seek the face of God before you get committed to any brother, Ogunlowo Ademola.
Tanitoluwa, what you need at the moment is Jesus. Marriage is forever, not that by tomorrow at the turn of tide you start to talk of divorce. When you receive Jesus, He will take you through rough road. Do not start what you cannot finish. For the fact that he did not ask for sex does not make him a good person. Men have means of getting women trapped in love; especially when they see that the lady’s future is bright. Go to God and cry to Him, He is the one who will direct your path. Ps. 5015; Ps. 86:7; Jer. 29:12; 1 Thess. 5: 22; Rom: 12: 1-2 and John 3: 3. Do not make a mistake that you will live all your life sorrowing, Umeh Okwudili.
Tanitoluwa, at your age as an undergraduate? you are still a virgin? I give you kudos. Now to the issue on ground, if I may ask, how sure are you about this guy’s sincerity of having given his life to Christ? Please, if you are not sure or convinced, I will advise you to put him to test. You know why? If the guy in question has a problem later in life, he will surely go back to his bad habit because that is the only way he believes his problem can be solved. Now, if you believe and have means of confirming that he is good and genuinely born again, you can go ahead and give him a chance. Again and again, don’t forget to ask God about him in your prayers as well. I wish you all the best, Ijaopo,
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