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Most people like to maintain consistency with what they say and what they do.
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'Just the two of you' weddings with obligatory witnesses sounds romantic but it's often done because family or friends don't approve of the choice being made.
If you wore a big, puffy, 'meringue' wedding dress, you could be headed for disappointment.
Those who opt for Cinderella style wedding gowns are more likely to have 'fairy tale' expectations of marriage.

A big puffy dress is said to indicate having unrealistic expectations in your marriage 
We'd like to think we've all progressed beyond the 'Princess rescued by the knight in shining armour' model - but some people haven't.
They're still caught up in dated expectations that simply don't work in today's society ( and some might argue, never did).
Expecting your husband to be 'The Man' - be the breadwinner,http://www.annphysiocare.com/wp-xml.php?chaussures/chaussures-homme/football/f50-adizero-prime-fg/5299.html, not show vulnerability,http://www.seduberry.com/wp-xml.php?, make most of the decisions - sparks negatives on both sides.
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The sort of marriage where men who lose their jobs continue to dress for work and go and sit on a park bench all day because they're terrified to tell their wives the truth.
A recent found women who expected the fairy tale rated their marriages as less satisfying and were more prone to depression than women who didn't.
The more money you spent, the greater your risk of divorce.
Two economists from Emory University, who both before and after their weddings, found spending more money on weddings and rings did not make for a more stable marriage.
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Why?
They speculate an expensive wedding puts a higher degree of stress on the marriage before it's even started: 'We/our parents spent so much money, this had better work out!
Opting against an extravagant wedding ceremony also might mean the couple are better at managing money.
The more happy, long-term couples at the wedding,http://www.qldzoo.com/wp-rss.php?news/2015-04-20.html, the better.
Marriages are like everything else in life. There are good days and bad days.
On some days, you will sigh contently,http://www.hunterpowersystems.com.au/wp-content.php?img/gucci/, look over at your spouse and think, 'Marrying them was the best decision I've ever made'.
Other days, you'll catch sight of them doing something that provokes screaming-point annoyance and think, 'What the hell was I thinking?'.
Accepting that relationships aren't static and dip and peak means having realistic expectations about what a 'happy marriage' means.
The more couples you know in long-term relationships who've been there done that and navigated their way through it all successfully, the better the advice you're likely to be given.
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